Background: I don’t know about other Christianity branches (?). But my branch (A sub branch of I believe Methodist church; the United Church of Canada) has something called confirmation classes.
When I was 14 with two of my girlfriends and some other church teens-I took confirmation classes. Now this year was the first year the church had a youth minster. I remember it was a male minster. But for some reasons which I don’t remember I didn’t feel comfortable around him. That there was just something “off” about him. That in a way he was trying to hard to “be cool” or trying to be our friend?