Was spending a message to a former schoolmate in charge of a Marketing Company good or bad idea?

I’m not sure if what I did was dumb or stupid or not. I was looking at my Linkedin page under my real name. The last time I logged in- I was scrolling through “My network” and I noticed that one of my former schoolmates (whose Dad in my Gr.10th- Grade 12 was the teacher whom dealt with Disabled kids in the normal stream aka the AR teacher)-had founded a business of some sort during Covid. It’s a women supporting women business and focusing on branding and marketing.

I don’t know what the schoolmate’s clients’ products are - but I sent a message to the schoolmate giving some suggestions for clothing or makeup (well more make-up then clothing). I know women aren’t all interested in make-up or clothing. Like I suggested that if a client’s product might be make-up having the packaging be tactile.

I also suggested that they try to include disabled people in marketing since disabled people have money too.

Was me sending a message to a former schoolmate a good/bad idea?
  • Good idea (brands should try to be accessible!)
  • Maybe
  • Bad idea
  • indifferent

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No offence intended but Bad Idea. Yes, brands should be accessible but, as you didn’t do any brand research, you don’t know if your former classmate is actually involved with the brand beyond flogging the stuff. Also, if you haven’t been in contact for the last 15 years or so, having a blast from the past going “Your brand is crap as it isn’t accessible!” particularly if you only sell it then it could cause unintended offence.

In short - Research the brand. It may already be accessible, just not via your classmate. Also, by offering the suggestion, you may have killed it entirely. Many companies have policies that specifically forbid product ideas from outside the company. If your friend takes the idea to the company and they make it, you could pull out this message and try and sue them for a cut of the Loonies. No company wants that liability.


It is probably kinda off-putting that you sent a message to advise someone you haven’t otherwise contacted, about products you don’t even know whether they are selling. At best this was a bizarre interaction your old classmate will not respond to.


And how am I suppose to do brand research if Schoolmate (not classmate she wasn’t in any of MY classes) doesn’t say anything about the clients’ projects on her company website?

@RebeccaBlue it’s not (Schoolmate) whom is selling the products but her CLIENTS. She’s just trying to HELP the clients sell their brand and marketing. And again there is no information on the schoolmate’s site about what her clients are trying to sell.

For all I know the clients could be trying to sell gym equipment! But they could also be trying to sell makeup, clothing, or apps for mobile phones.

These are what is on her site:

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As a general rule, offering someone your advice when they haven’t asked for it is not a good idea. It will probably be ignored, and may even offend that person.

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But all i was doing is just putting out there that disabled people might want to be able to access the products or be included in marketing or both. And without knowing what the schoolmate’s clients projects are (there is zero information about the clients products on the schoolmate’s website). I mean I’m not expecting a reply but I just putting it there for the person to just keep in her mind that disabled people might want to be customers of her clients’ projects.

And also she isn’t disabled… but her Dad was the head of the Disabled Kids like myself whom were in the “normal stream” as of Gr.10.

I mean how else can I give her information except for messaging her directly without asking another friend “Hey friend could you contact (schoolmate) and ask her if her clients’ projects included thinking about the disabled community? If not could you ask her to contact me”?

Going to stick with bad idea. From her spiel this is her profession. I am a brewer. Beer is made with water, barley, hops and yeast . You sent her the equivalent of someone emailing me saying “Do you know that you need to brew with hops?”. Obvious and possibly patronising.


And since she is not disabled… it might not be in her mind? So it’s not something she or her clients might think of about potential disabled customers? I mean there’s no information about her clients products. And she’s only been in the business for over two years now since she only founded the business at the start of Covid

You’re not discriminated against because of your race but you still think about it. Just because she isn’t disabled (or more importantly doesn’t advertise if she has a hidden disability) doesn’t mean that she hasn’t thought about it. It’s very close-minded of you to assume that she doesn’t think of these things just because she’s done this current project for two years. You really need to open up your world-view.


and my world view is that according to at least the visually impaired community that those people (and other disabled people) is/are not included in a LOT of products (or even in the marketing) for normal folks. Like something I listened to recently, the YouTube video said that a lot of apps for mobiles TURN OFF the voice readers or the ZOOM IN feature which make them inaccessible to visually impaired.

And why did you bring up the race thing? That has NOTHING to do about disabilities.

Edit: I mean if disabled community wasn’t discrimated against why was there such a big to do when Herbal Essence’s Shampoo and Conditor made bumps on the bottom of the bottles for visually impaired people to know which is the Shampoo and Condiator? Or Christmas of 2021 there was such a big deal of a chocolate company (Purdy’s) making a tactile version of the “Chocolate boxes” for the visually impaired?

I agree. But some things don’t need people for the advertisement either. The fact of the matter is that her blurb seems to parrot inclusivity and similar values. It’s wrong of you to assume that she hasn’t thought of these things. It may help if you copy the message that you actually sent below.

I used race as a comparative item where people who are not members of another race don’t automatically think to include them.


Purdy’s choclate Braille box:

Herbal Essence Shampoo and Conditor:

I know visually impaired is only part of the disabled community. But it’s what I know about because of Molly

Do you also walk into random shops without checking what they sell and tell the cashiers they should try to be more disability-friendly?

From what I’ve skimmed through of what you posted about this person’s website, they sell marketing. It is up to their clients as to what products they sell and whether or not they want to be accessible to people. So first of all, this would not be the right person to contact about such things.

If you did want to talk to someone about disability-accessible products, I’d suggest finding either an advocate group or someone who’s actually in charge of what the business sells. For the later, who quite frankly probably wouldn’t want to talk to a stranger, you would start by asking permission to give suggestions.

Messaging someone out of the blue to give unsolicited advice is, generally speaking, a bad idea.

And as a side note, I personally don’t like how you worded your poll. Because yes brands should try to be accessible, but no you probably shouldn’t have messaged this person.

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and how am I suppose to know what the schoolmate’s clients are trying to SELL if there’s no information of any kind of the clients’ products? The schoolmate’s website says that she’s a consulting "BRAND AND MARKETING STRAGETRY CONSULATATION". For me to even get information about the clients and or their products would be through (schoolmate) herself.

Without going through (schoolmate) I can’t:
research clients’ brands
can’t research their products
or other things you guys “suggest”

Diversity and inclusion are the in thing for marketing right now. Call me cynical but I think that by getting these advertorials into the media they’re going to get more sales through the well-meaning left-leaning majority than the people these items are designed to help.

And I second the point made that yes, brands should be accessible but no, you shouldn’t have messed this person.

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Schoolmate isn’t using her website to get customers to visit her clients’ websites, she’s using it to get more clients. You aren’t supposed to be able to find out who her clients are or what they sell.

This schoolmate is not the right person to contact about this issue. Even if you find the right person to contact about this issue, you might not be the right person to contact them about it.


Advocate groups. Write a blog. Contribute articles to independent media sources. There are many ways.

Here is the main point:

Don’t send your unsolicited ideas to random people on social media.


she is a CONSULTANTION FOR BRANDS AND MARKETING not a “random” person on “social media” I’m not contacting her on Facebook but the professional LinkedIn. And Marketing is a big deal for disabled people. Since how many disabled people do you see in marketing on TV? My Mom makes a big deal whenever there’s a wheelchair in an ad or in an Ad for Amazon there was a man whom used ASL.

# Nielsen study: People with disabilities are largely absent from TV advertising
Only 1% of primetime ads feature people with disabilities, the report found. And existing attempts at representation often miss the mark.

So how can I know about her client’s products for me to do research on those products if there’s no information about products without me contacting schoolmate?

LinkedIn - Sell yourself and sell your product. Social media for professionals. Whether LinkedIn, Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, etc. it’s all Social Media.

Are you going to hire this person? No? Then believe me, she’s not interested. You’re fifteen years out of touch. She’s a random person, or more importantly, you’re a random person to her.

And your family is anomalous. From your other threads, they do things very differently to the way others do - at least from the sample size of those who still respond to your threads. However - The question asked was:

Question: Should I have messaged this person?

Survey says: No.

The point remains:

Don’t message random people your unsolicited ideas on social media.

Here endeth the lesson. Peace.


How much do you actually know about this person? You went to the same school, and you know her job title, but how well do you know her?

I’m guessing not much (though I could be wrong about that). It seems like the only reason you’ve messaged her is because you recognise her name from school and she’s on your LinkedIn (which I’m pretty sure counts as a social media website for job stuff).

I can’t say too much about disabled people in adverts since I either skip them or go make a cup of tea, and maybe this is an issue that matters to a lot of other disabled people. Does not change that contacting this person is not likely to help at all with that.

This person is not your “in” to contacting businesses about their products. Which products her clients sell doesn’t really matter since she isn’t the right person for you to be talking to. You just happen to know her name.