I want to know if I’m ABIU when I tell people off when they say stuff like “Right Guy is coming for you” (unless you’re my parents)- whenever I get upset about not having my own partner?
It just whenever i get upset about not having my own partner - I’m either told “the right guy is coming for you” or some version of that or with my Mom she’s talks about either a “church friend”, a great-aunt (who lived all her live with my great-grandparents), or a couple of my cousins who have broken up with their partner (and the 2nd eldest been with her boyfriend since she was 16) or she’s talks about a woman at (teachers’ event) that got married for the first time when she was 70.
it just I been waiting for 13 years for a guy to cross my path and it hasn’t happened. And the worst time was when I was at my day-program two years ago maybe? Person A was doing check-in and was talking about her then bad boyfriend and Person B said something along the lines of “Pray to God for a better boyfriend” which made me so upset that I ran out of the room into the hallway. I don’t know the reason why I ran out of the room-maybe because I had been praying to the “big guy” for 10,11 years by that point for a boyfriend and he still hadn’t given me one?